Butchorfemme

This is just another generic dating site pretending to be geared towards those looking specifically for a butch or femme. Clearly the creators have no idea what those terms even mean or any clue about lesbian relationship dynamics. They trick you as a free member by the constant alerts of 'emails' from members in your inbox which you can't read without subscribing. When you subscribe you'll see that most of the messages are from free members sending template messages. The pool of members is uninspiring and includes the usual swinging couple types looking for a third party, perverted men who want to 'turn' a lesbian, weirdos and men pretending to be women. The worst part is that they make it difficult to cancel your membership and delete your profile. First of all, good luck finding the page where you can even submit a request. Once submitted, they send you a form over the next few days that will likely end up in your spam folder. This form gives you a code which you must enter within 48 hours of receiving on another obscure corner of the website, otherwise the request expires and you need to submit a new one. The bottom line is if you're genuinely looking for a 'butch' or 'femme' identifying lesbian on this site you will be disappointed. And you get to pay a fortune each month for the privilege of such disappointment and a headache when you try to back out. Don't waste your time- butchorfemme.co.uk sucks.