Grommr.com

these other reviews are absurd!!! tbh, i am hot & fun & VERY fat, but i have found tons of friendly guys on grommr! there are a lot of people on grommr just looking for friendship & community, and the people complaining below probably just have poor social skills. there are guys w/ patreons & onlyfans, but honestly it takes a lot of money to get really fat & some guys like to pay. wish i could give more than five stars.

I read the reviews on here and they are SPOT on. The stigma is fat people have always been shamed or shunned. So GROMMR is a community created in which to support them. But GROMMR hardly practices the objectivity it is based upon. I have spent months at a time on there. I have experienced conversations that abruptly end the moment I didn't fit another's image or fetish. I have seen posts to similar experiences, if you don't meet somebody's image or fetish you are cut off. I have seen the posts for food and money; I was hit up by a guy who requested these services. He said he would only ask once. I really liked him and conceded and then going forward he asked me for more money for food, and clothes. I believe now he was mentally ill…and I don't think he's the only one there. It's mental illness, in addition to sex trafficking and con games.

Grommr has a severe problem.

Here is the exact problem with Grokio LLC and Grommr in general.

1 They try to sell themselves off as a dating site when in reality they beg for food and money. Oh they have their Grommoff but they don't want anything to do with you.

2. If you aren't a specific special body weight then you are just nothing to them. Also just to vent about the site. They look at your profile but act like you don't exist. It's heartbreaking when you ask to have a boyfriend but they refused to listen without it being money. Being honest I seriously think they are sex workers and scammers.

3. Funny how they look down at other guys when really most are begging for food and money or being nude on their only fans and patreon accounts. They intentionally get away with it.

4 I have been trying to tell them for years to create a gay dating app for men. To actually have a website that I can actually talk to regular people on a daily basis. The website and the people associated with it are a joke.

The site owners and those who run it could care less how you feel as long as they have money in their pockets. So Grommr. And Grokio LLC. Come up with something that isn't Gainer and chub chaser related for Gay singles. Because you know since you refuse to listen. I'm just going to say that you deserve this rating.

Oh and did I mention the married, in a relationship and Open relationship crowd. Tells you all you need to know about Grokio LLC. Grommr deserves the worst. Karma will always come to you and I will celebrate.

Just to add they beg people to support them into buying food while they do porn. Yeah that's a great way of showing what a great website they have. They are even afraid of the word dating. *Gasp* But they love their gay husband's and open relationships on their. Bunch of Cowards if you ask me. Feeder/Feedee nonsense from scammers and fake bears begging for money.

Just to add a little more to my review. These celebrity Con artists would rather die obese than to live.

As for Grokio LLC. I do have a bit more to add about them. They have four websites. Yes four Grommr, Chasabl, Feabie, Ferzu, Now PupSpace What kind of a company would allow having five websites and putting down LGBT people. It's Grokio LLC and their marry band of fat dudes that's what.

@piggy. Telling someone about social skills is absurd. Yeah just because you are fat doesn't mean that their isn't consequences. Diabetes, Heart disease among other health risks is not a laughing matter. Even when you get older. Fun community? I have been to the website on and off for years and nearly had a mental breakdown. If you think a rip off of Facebook is good for your mental health than I have no idea what to tell you.

@Erik I was a former Grommr member who agrees completely. The biggest problem with Grommr and Grokio in general is the fact that they claim to be a dating site. Now they changed to Social Media. Pushing Premium features and pushing terrible kink websites now. I'm not interested in Pup Space. Also and my guess is that they steal ideas from different Communities. Fantasy Feeder comes to mind. I seriously think that the owners of the site have Mental Illness with everything going on.

Also in my mind. I think their should be a website for skinny fat guys who want to be treated equally and aren't scamming people for money. I would love for a company to make that happen. It would be great without it being toxic and letting Grommr try to steal their ideas. I would love the idea of it for single gay men only without the money and the sexualization of it. Not to mention the elimination of Open Relationships, The Married guys. The guys who are already in relationships. That would be a breath of fresh air if it came to fruition.

I was a member on this website / community for 3 months, hoping that I'd get to make many new young gainer friends. I'm a young slim guy who is attracted to guys bigger than me and thought that, after discovering this website, I would fit right in. How wrong I was.

The website is home to many chubs and even a few superchubs. Names like doughtub, HighCalPal and Chubbles are some of the many young good looking gainers who I would love to be friends with. The problem? I'm not the only one. People like them get thousands of messages from admirers and encouragers every day and they usually rarely, or never, respond back. The only time they'll respond is if they have actually met those people in person and have a good connection. If you are just a random guy, then you'll most definitley be ignored.

This brings to another problem. Now before I say this, everyone has preferences on what kind of guy they'd like to be with, like size, age, height and so on. For me, I like guys who are bigger than me (like at least 100 pounds heavier), taller (not always, but I prefer taller guys), and someone who is a few years older than me, even if it's like a 10 year gap. 15 at the max. And Americans are the most attractive (anywhere else just isn't for me, even though I am from there myself.) For some reason, I go after the kinds of people I'm attracted to and hope to build a friendship, but I end up attracting a crowd who are the complete opposite of the kind of people I want to be friends with. Short, skinny, Indian….old. I seem to be a hit on 50-60 year olds, and no offence, but that just weirds me out.

This not only makes me lose hope from trying to be friends with the kind of people I am attracted to, but there is zero chance of wanting to be in a relationship with the kind of guy you want to be with. The people who I am attracted to are either one of the following:

* In a relationship
* Married
* Too far away from where you live
* Not interested in people of my size (for whatever reason) and are "chub4chub"

The first three reasons is the most common occurence from my experience, but when you do find someone you like and want to build a relationship with them, they will either friendzone you or break contact with you because you are not their type.

I also want to point out that there is a lot of favouritism in there and it is a numbers game. If you are attractive (young is usally better but sometimes late 30s) and obese (or wanting to become one), then you'll attract a lot attention and gain followers and receive messages from people all over the world. They are like celebrities in the gaining world.

I was heartbroken and made the decision to leave not only the website, but to make me lose interest in this community as a whole. Heck, it probably made me even lose admiration for this fetish and it sucks, because I now have to live the rest of my life knowing that I'll never be with someone who is young or a few years older than me, bigger, taller, attractive and either obese, morbidly obese, or someone who wants to be obese, as long as he is bigger than me.

So, if you are like me and think you can be friends with the usernames that I mentioned, then don't even bother. If you are already a chub, young, good looking and wanting to be fatter, then they'll likely notice you and this place is definetly for you.

Otherwise, stay away from this site. And maybe, just stay away from this whole community in general.

They claim to open and accepting, yet no one accepts transgender or bisexual people. They aren't the self entitled sluts of Feabie, no. But they still pick and choose and refuse to respond for no reason. This kink isn't common, yet they have a set image to go with their preference. Don't match it perfectly and you're out of luck.